Don’t Be “Nice” at Work

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If there’s one word that I have always disliked; maybe even detested, it’s the word “nice.”  As a child, I heard, “be nice to your sister,” “be nice to the kids on the playground.” At my early jobs, I heard “be nice to the customers.”  Even at the professional level, I heard, “Why can’t people just be nice?” Please understand; I am definitely in...

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I’m Thankful for Tight Pants

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Getting dressed each morning is an adventure.  It’s not because there’s nothing clean, but because of the daily potential that today might be the day that my pants will be too tight to wear. I don’t really go on a diet until my pants are too tight.  I convince myself that I am eating healthy foods in appropriate amounts in combination with...

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It’s Time to Take Off Your Mask. Be Genuine, Authentic You.

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It’s the witching time of year! Night comes earlier; the shadows are deeper; and sounds are more eerie. Invitations appear for events that offer the chance to be someone else: a ghost, a witch, a football player, or even an alien. The transformation to a new identity is easily achieved by changing clothes and adding a mask. It can be fun to be...

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Lost on the Way Home from Kindergarten – a Life Lesson

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Getting ready to start kindergarten was a big step for me. Well, before the first day of school, Dad and I practiced the three-block route while paying attention to the landmarks. The neighborhood parents collaborated on times and routes, so we would know how to get to school. I could hardly wait! I was confident and ready to go! That wasn’t...

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